Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Codependency Questions - 6/22/2010

What can I come to accept about my relationship with my mom?
I may never be close to my mom.

What can I come to accept about my relationship with Michael?
That we are not together. Michael and I are not romantic partners anymore. I can accept that I still care about him, but I don't want to be with Michael because I don't love him. I feel like I love him, but I think I just care about him. I think I have one foot in the door, but I don't have both feet in the door. He doesn't trust me emotionally fully.

What can I come to accept about the relationship between Rena and I?

How do I try to control others?
When I speak with Shivana today, I tried say what I wanted to do based on what I thought she wanted, therefore trying to control her satisfaction with the resulting situation. Shivana doesn't have to like the same things I do. A friend and I can like two different things and still be friends.

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