Monday, December 9, 2013

Beyond Band-Aids: Why Karezza Sex Heals Effectively

Why is sexuality so influential in bringing to light the things we don't like about ourselves?  It is a blessing in disguise.

Sexuality becomes so influential and brings awareness to all of our deeper issues, insecurities, complexes, habits, and ingrained traits of character because it is a literal, physical interaction with our emotions- the bio-electricity, bodily tension/relaxation, and our inner beliefs and thoughts about how our needs and the needs of others can and should be met.

The amazing thing about sex is that it is a great mudraker- that is, it brings the shit to the surface, for better or worse.  If problems appear, and they are not taken care of, sex will not help- unless sex is approached in the right attitude.  I find that a humble attitude in Karezza is perfect for approaching sex, and good practice for the way to approach problems which you find in your life.

Karezza can be one of those necessary changes you make in your life which will reveal solutions for other situations.


The issue with neglecting sex as a route for healing is that it is incredibly powerful, and very influential in our lives.  For anyone who has read the free online PDF by Dr. Von Urban, Sexual Perfection and Marital Happiness, one can begin to see that sexual distress permeates the rest of our lives, whether we admit it or not.  The positive side of this is that taking the journey into your sexual healing reveals the solutions for other struggles in your life, slowly but surely.

Our culture needs to understand that calming, mutually-nourishing sex can help heal deep-rooted emotional problems.  No one thinks it's sexy to bring their problems to bed with them, but the reality is that we all have problems.   I think that too often, when people become faced with their problems, they attribute the sexual issues to themselves, and do not realize that it is their actions during sex which are the cause of the emotional distress.  This same problem happens when someone eats the wrong diet- they say that they're own body can't lose weight, and their genetics tie them down.  In reality, it is the choice of food which hinders their body from regaining health.

Surely, there are issues that come to the surface from our past which we think are from different personal issues than sex, but all issues from either the past or present in sexuality or otherwise are connected through ineffective emotional habits.  Karezza helps heal misguided emotional habits through calm, peace, awareness, happiness, pleasure, understanding, honesty.  People can create these attitudes in other areas of their lives without sex, but sex is a sure way to understand if they are properly developed or not.

I believe that Karezza is a natural way to have sex, and to respond emotionally to another person.  Our misguided ways of interaction taught in society lead me to a way of sex which drained me emotionally, physically, and created habits in sex which hindered my sexual happiness.

So...

Educate yourself about Karezza techniques and tell everyone around you that would care to listen.

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